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Rotary Culture Shock

by sander5. August 2010 16:49

This article is going to be full of reflections and may sound a little harsh or even manipulating. At least I ended up venting a little bit of frustration. Since you can't take pictures of thought, I have decided to illustrate with some calming pictures I took a late evening in rainy Taipei City, northeastern part.

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A comment on my other blog, sander.zunavi.dk, made me think a little. It was from a blogger stating she had followed me for a while, who's going abroad with Rotary to Taiwan. Nothing strange about the comment, reading it made me feel good, but it also reminds me something:
I have only written about all the good stuff and quite easily made everyone think that Rotary in Taiwan is just the nicest bunch of people out there.
Not good.

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Because the thing is: My year in Taiwan, albeit a great experience and definitely the most eventfull year of my life, Rotary was like a big ugly nimbus hanging over me all the while, threathening to ruin it all, and in the end they did. I decided on going back one month before planned because I just couldn't stand them anymore.

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I can't promise a very long article on this subject just right away, but I would like it very much to be a little warning to those who are going abroad with Rotary. Going abroad is a great experience, especially if you can make all the little things work out nicely. I would however personally encourage anyone to try other ways and let Rotary be a last resort. Their system sucks.

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Now, I've only had most of my problems with Rotary in Taiwan and I can't talk for all Rotary clubs in the entire world. I do believe that most if not every single exchange student that I have met in Taiwan would agree to me that rotarians are a bit old-fashioned and very stubborn. They're nice and welcoming to new exchange students and they try their best to make you get into the new country and culture quickly. The first few months of yours are probably going to be very painless and although you might get lost once or twice and have another few accidents with the new surroundings, the first part of an exchange is usually very easy in East Asian countries at least.

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You have probably heard a lot about the big bad "culture shock". I myself don't like that word. I find it too losely defined. Put all the "symptoms" together and you might as well see that being more than a few tens of miles away from home is enough to make you have culture shock.

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I might just have been used to many different types of people before I went off abroad but I didn't really feel there were so many weird things about Taiwanese people. I mean: They speak Chinese and eat innards worse-than-scottish-style. But they still sleep, (well, most of them,) and other things that humans always do. There were really not such a big difference anyway, just lots of very small differences.

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But Rotary are going to give you a culture shock sometime, that's for sure if you're going to the East Asian countries. Those going to Taiwan or Japan have probably gotten told many times that cultures are so different there from the western world, but still: Rotary is the real difference. They're nothing like the normal population. Actually, I can even tell of at least one (taiwanese) teacher at my two schools who had a bit of a "culture shock" with Rotary.

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Hopefully I will get to delve deeper into it in upcoming posts. I fear, though, that it will soon be so late, that most people already arrived in their home countries for this next year. (I know a lot of people did already, the three Taiwanese girls inbound for Denmark that I met down in Taichung did arrive already.)

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Now, apparently my angry rant hasn't completely scared away whoever reads this or otherwise you just cared to watch the pictures and nothing else. I hope this post didn't sound too much like just an angry outburst, because actually, that's probably what it is after all. Write me if you still got something of it.

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If you liked the pictures then you might also like:
Some trip to Ximending after school with my KaiNan classmates.
Huajiang Bridge during a very rainy evening. I like bridges :)
Baobing, a heavenly dessert served at many night markets in Taiwan and nearby too.
Here's another post similar with this: It has some hoghwashish reflections and pictures of Taipei by night.

11-08-2010 07:33:05#

Michelle

I don't really have Internet right now, I'm writing on an iPhone with the 3g network. Because of those things, I can't write too well at the moment and I haven't commented on your comment on my blog.

Rotary shock. What could that mean? Were they unreasonable? Were they strict? Did they look down upon you? Perhaps they were cold and distant? Please explain in a little more detail and with some examples.

I have a few thoughts on this topic but I may not have time to post them on my blog for a while. Feel free to email me michiruke@gmail.com, comment on my blog at http://michelle-Taiwan.blogspot.com, or post it on your blog. If you post it on your blog, please link me to it.

You've made me very curious. Please respond soon.

Thanks!
Michelle

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11-08-2010 11:37:21#

Sander

Some of them were very unreasonable. This kind of people are not used to back off. When they have said their opinion they wont change no matter what, otherwise they'll feel like they're losing face.
But not all of them are unreasonable. With me, my counsellor, third host family and some higher-ups from another district who suddenly felt like poking their nose into my life were very unreasonable. But my second host family were pretty respected in the club and they did a lot to help me. First host family, especially the grandpa there liked me too and had their influence. The time I spent at their house was probably some of the best.

Most of the Rotarians are very strict. I think this applies to most of the world but especially in East Asia. High Schools are strict there too, so that's not so much different from the rest of the country.

You will find that a lot of Rotarians look down upon exchange students as they are very judgemental. Some of them just look down on anyone not of high standing in the society, but you will also find that you probably will inherit a lot of "faults" from previous exchange students. You'll probably quickly get used to hearing about previous students who did this and that crazy or absurd thing and almost never hear about good stuff committed unless they want to compare you with someone. (Note: Most Asian parents are kind of like this: They want their kids to be number one. Anything else is not good enough, so if someone else in your district practices Chinese a lot before going, you'll get to know even more how Taiwanese kids feel!)

So: Some of their "bad" attributes, they share very much with the rest of their brethren. Others are very unique due to Rotary being mostly more or less arrogant semi-elites in society.

My advice: Take it easy and don't let it get you completely down if it feels like people are being just mean. Be careful not to expect too much but don't be too nice and follow every order and rule they give you zealously or you'll get really bored. It's my experience that honesty is not the most important part of their society, especially amongst the traditional-minded. E.g. If you don't like something or someone, you wont vent your opinion before you're sure no one fond of it/them can hear.
Same goes for sneaking out in the city. I heard about lots of exchange students "sleeping at their friends houses" and thereby be allowed to go to night clubs. Few families will be very strict. Some just ignores anything fishy they feel because they don't really mind. Just, if you're lying to them, they're not breaking the rules about letting you out after 10, right?
Just requires that you know an exchange student with a not-too-strict host family who wont mind if they come home at anytime with anyone. If you get a host family that's not entirely rotarians, you're pretty lucky. All mine were. Grandparents, parents, sons and daughters. Except for kids below 20 years of age.

Hope I didn't scare you off completely. Now I just wrote something quick again without reviewing much.

Sander

13-08-2010 00:11:20#

Michelle

Thank you for the quick reply. I have thought it may be that way.
I had a Japanese teacher who was pretty much out to get me and just down right rude once. It's a little of the culture and just a little of her, because I had other Japanese teachers who adored me.

I think I understand what you're talking about. I had hoped it wouldn't be the case. In japan, I though I would have an in because I speak Japanese. But with Taiwan...

Well, I'll try my best.

Our stories are very similar, aren't they.

Also, I am not scared away. If this was all it took to scare me away, I think I wouldn't have been a good person for exchange in the first place.

Thank you for the heads up. I will keep it in mind and try to take your advice.
Michelle

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